The Sisters of Bethany
Reconciling Mary and Martha
Women of Contemplation and Active Service



Mary and MarthaThroughout the ages there has been theological discussion and debate around Mary of Bethany and Mary Magdalene. Were they two separate women or were they one in the same? To answer this question is to answer from a place of faith rather than intellect.

In my heart I believe that Mary of Bethany was Mary Magdalene sister to Martha and Lazarus. Therefore, the following materials that I have been guided to create when referring to Mary are referencing Mary Magdalene. I respect other viewpoints on this subject because as I stated, I believe this to be an issue of faith. I welcome your interpretations and heartfelt thoughts on this subject. Please send your comments to dana@sacredimagination.com

Books about Mary and Martha

Luke 10:38-42, Catholic Bible

Mary and MarthaNow it came to pass as they were on their journey, that He entered a certain village; and a woman named Martha welcomed Him to her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who also seated herself at the Lord’s feet, and listened to his word. But Martha was busy about much serving. And she came up and said,

"Lord, is it no concern of thine that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her therefore to help me."

But the Lord answered and said to her, "Martha, Martha, thou art anxious and troubled about many things; and yet only one thing is needful. Mary has chosen the best part and it will not be taken away from her."

This passage reflects the inner struggle many of us seek to resolve today. Martha and Mary’s spirits live within us.

Martha is the productive sister. She tends the house, cooks, cleans, works at her job with a high attention to detail and a scheduled plan. She is all about accomplishment, getting things done, keeping up appearances, serving others. Martha is dedicated to organization, deadlines, and the task at hand. She is hard-working, a dedicated friend, someone to be counted upon.Mary and Martha

Mary is the contemplative sister. She is peaceful, centered, and prayerful. She is also a strong social activist. Her life and inner strength are rooted in her spiritual practices. She is a student of sacred knowledge and mystical wisdom. Silence is a key to inner kingdom. Her ability to listen is one of her greatest strengths. Mary is passionate and strong in her reserve.

Like Mary and Martha we are women living in a time of shifting paradigms and worldly chaos. How do we reconcile our inner Martha and Mary, our Sisters of Bethany? Our creative spirits long to serve the planet, tend the hearth and home, children, lovers, partners, and friends. We awake each morning to a list of "to dos." We go to work, drive carpool, cook, clean, garden, take care of the needs of our beloveds, and a host of other tasks. Our busyness is Martha’s pull into the world.

Meanwhile, deep within us Mary is waiting. She emerges as we whisper our prayers in the middle of morning traffic. Her presence is felt when we fall into bed at night and we hear her voice say, "Tomorrow take time to be still…to be with God…"


Mary and Martha


The Sisters of Bethany offer us the opportunity to become active yet contemplative servants to God. Through prayerful spiritual practice and the acknowledgment of our inner Truths, we can begin to forge a plan of sacred action in the world. When our prayer life, our sacred rituals and study become the center of our lives miracles begin to happen. Synchronicity and guidance find us to open the door to new possibilities for ways to be spiritual activists in the world, for ways to serve God and ways to enrich the lives of others. We balance Mary and Martha within us.

Mary and Martha’s spirits are alive today to guide us to become the new Sisters of Bethany. Read further to discover the simple ways that you can begin to integrate the modeling of the spirits of these ancient women. May they offer guidance for your life and your spiritual journey as you bloom into your full awakening and conscious mystical action in the world.


Mary

Mary and MarthaMary is the witness. Mary is the one who became Christ’s companion and some scholars believe she was His bride. Mary was keeper of the holy oils and balms, guardian of rituals. She was the anointer. She stayed with Christ at the cross with his mother and John. It was Mary who Christ appeared to immediately after His resurrection. She became the first woman priest/minister when He sent her to tell the others of the greatest miracle the world has ever known. She was "the apostle to the apostles." Her contemplation called her to social action and service. She saw the resurrected Cosmic Christ and she still invites others to see Him today.

This was her calling, her Truth. She was contemplative but not passive. She was the steadfast friend, the patient student. She offers us the model for balancing our inner desires to be outwardly active with inner service through prayer, the study of sacred wisdom, and contemplation. When we are centered in our inner spiritual life Mary invites us to put our spiritual energies into active service in the world.

In our contemporary fear-ridden and chaotic world, Mary calls us to listen to the voice of the Cosmic Christ. She invites us to become attuned to our callings. She is asking us to be courageous and to be way-showers for others. Her message is to be prayerful, contemplative and to be informed both spiritually and globally. Mary’s spirit reaches out to inspire us through the veil of time and space. She invites us to deepen our connection to God through our spiritual practices, to sit at the feet of the Lord, to listen to His guidance. Here are some simple ways to engage with the Divine through Mary’s wisdom.

 - Invocation to Mary -

Blessed Mary sister of sacred practice, teach me to embrace stillness, contemplation, and prayer as doorways to co-creation with the Divine.

Awaken my senses so they may become the pathways bridging my body to my soul. Help me to reclaim the ancient sacred practices of healing and anointing so that I might share these rituals with others. Give me the grace to go into silence to listen for the voice of God so I might know my true calling.

Oh, beloved sister in spirit, I welcome your ways into my heart and mind, that I might join you in faithful service to our Lord. Amen.


1. Sit at the feet of the Lord. Shift from doing into being. Devote a portion of your day to sacred study, prayer, and contemplation. Light your candles, burn incense, create your altar, read sacred texts. Become the scribe and record your questions and revelations in your journal. Practice the ancient monastic practice of Lectio Divina. http://www.valyermo.com/ld-art.html

Visit these web-sites to deepen your study and spiritual practice:
http://www.orders.anglican.org/arcyb/ssb.html
http://www.soulfulliving.com
http://www.csp.org
http://www.meditationsociety.com
http://www.jesuit.ie/prayer

2. Fast and create your sacred rituals. Begin to develop a "fasting" consciousness. Ask yourself, "Will this action, purchase, conversation, or activity be of service to the Highest plan for my life or the life/ or cause of someone else?" Be conscious of how you spend your energy each day. Design your sacred practices to take you into the deepest recesses of your soul. Pour your oils, spikenard, frankincense, myrrh as you prepare your anointing rituals.

While he was at Bethany in the house of Simon the leper, as he sat at the table, a woman came with an alabaster jar of very costly ointment of nard, and she broke open the jar and poured the ointment on his head. But some were there who said to one another in anger, "Why was the ointment wasted in this way? For this ointment could have been sold for more than three hundred denarii, and the money given to the poor." And they scolded her. But Jesus said, "Let her alone; why do you trouble her? She has performed a good service for me. For you always have the poor with you, and you can show kindness to them whenever you wish; but you will not always have me. She has done what she could; she has anointed my body beforehand for its burial. Truly I tell you, wherever the good news is proclaimed in the whole world, what she has done will be told in remembrance of her" (Mk 14.3-9).

Visit http://www.youngliving.us to learn more about aromatic oils. Bless those who cross your path. Nurture your body as the temple of your soul.

3. Ask God to reveal your calling. Pray for guidance regarding how you are to serve the Lord in the world and in your daily life. Watch for synchronicities and signs from the angels. Pay attention to your dreams.

4. Put prayer into the fabric of each moment. Prayer is the pathway to healing. Let your life become a continual river of prayer, the inner silent prayer of your heart. Prayers of thanksgiving for the countless blessings of each day. Prayers of adoration to the Creator of the entire Universe. Prayers of petition for personal and global needs.

Visit http://www.thecentering.org/therapy.html to learn more about centering prayer.

To read The Gnostic Gospel’s Gospel of Mary Magdalene follow this link:
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/religion/maps/primary/mary.html

 
Martha

Martha is our model for determination and perseverance through conscious social/spiritual action. Martha sees the needs of others and responds. Martha invites us to draw from what Mary teaches us and then put that wisdom and our spiritual awareness into action to be of service to God and humanity. Martha teaches us to be mindful of creating beauty and sacred space, of nurturing others, of tending the hearth and tending the soul of the world. Here are some ways to deepen the connection with the spirit of your inner Martha.


- Invocation to Martha -

Mary and MarthaBlessed Martha, sister of sacred action, guide my outreach in the world. Help me to be conscious in each moment to recognize the needs of those around me.  Open my eyes to suffering, hunger, abuse, and neglect.

Give me the courage to do what I can to bring healing to the planet through my active service and compassionate interaction and conversations with others. Inspire me to spread beauty, intentional gestures of kindness, and to create sacred space wherever life leads me.

I turn to you, Martha, for strength and physical stamina to follow you in active creative service to God. Amen.


1. Create your map for spiritual activism. Write your vision statement in response to God’s call. How will you begin to move into service? What are your goals for the next week, the next month, and the next six months? Post reminders to yourself to stay centered in your calling. Engage your sacred imagination to birth your spiritual and creative gifts to share with the world.

Visit http://www.main.nc.us/stewardsoftheearth/activism.shtml to learn more about spiritual activism.

2. Call a circle of support. Call together a circle of women, as fellow spiritual seekers, to join you as Sisters of Bethany. Be clear in your intention of how to work together. Agree to meet frequently to create community for prayer and support of one another.

Co-create through active service in the world and share time in contemplation and sacred study.

Send your circle’s story to dana@sacredimagination.com

Visit http://www.peerspirit.com/htmlpages/circlebasics.html to learn about calling a circle.

3. Keep informed on world events. To do God’s work in the world we must be well informed on the ever-changing global conditions. Choose your sources of information carefully. Be careful not to become addicted and obsessed by media coverage. Stay balanced regarding your intake of reports on world affairs.

Visit http://www.alternativesmagazine.com/13/harvey1.html to learn more about the importance of being socially active.

4. Be consciously aware that we are all One. Greet everyone who crosses your path as your brother or sister. Feel your connection to the entire world. Focus on those areas that are of special interest and calling to you. Research all the options to find the organization(s)/causes that are meaningful to you and ways you can contribute your gifts, talents, and treasures to help bring healing to our planet.

Visit these web-sites to begin to explore ways that you can be of service to others in the world.

http://www.thehungersite.com/cgi-bin/WebObjects/CTDSites
http://www.netscout.net/oneworld
http://www.1wow.org
http://www.greenpeace.org/homepage
http://www.nationalhomeless.org
http://www.aspca.org/site/PageServer
http://www.unaids.org/en/default.asp
http://www.cancernews.com/support.html

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